A Little Bit About Me
I'm a Holistic Health Consultant and Homeopathy Practitioner and studying and developing professionally my interest and passion in holistic healing and alternative medicine gradually. Graduated from Al Azhar University Faculty of Arabic Language and Literature. Studied Islam in various countries with Ahlus Sunnah Scholars and still studying. I can speak Arabic (Classical Arabic) as well, apart from English and Tamil. A little of Malay.
Ahlus Sunnah creed.
Love nature, healing, reading, psychology, meditation, silence, humor and truth.
Love the real Sufis of the past and their lives and a real fan of them.
Hate dishonesty, lying, jealousy, backbiting, talebearing and try my best to stay away from them.
Striving daily to develop good character.
Lived and studied in a few countries.
I have plans to continue and finish my hifz Al Quran, what I've started long ago, but couldn't continue for various reasons from life. So someone who is cooperative for that goal will be good.
Singaporean. And currently living in Singapore.
P.S.
Please don't expect an exorbitant amount of mahr.
Please don't expect a lavish and luxurious lifestyle.
Be reasonable.
I'm against most of the 21st century indian (other cultures as well) cultural norms that don't make sense that revolves around marriage (can be discussed which ones can be accepted, I'm not that unreasonable!). Also, I won't be able to afford costly lifestyle.
Call me a rebel against cultural norms, I won't mind.
I care less about third party opinions.
Spending on a simple marriage, along with giving some sadaqa either by food or money for Allah, with the intention of a blessed enduring marriage will be far off better than spending all your hard earned money just for one night of celebration. Or worse, taking a debt to throw in for a celebration just to please your relatives and friends or how the society is going to see it, and spend years paying off the debt, I will never do that!
Truth can be hurtful. But there will be more baraka in this life and the hereafter.
And baraka comes in many different mysterious ways, more than what we imagine it to be! That is something I believe with conviction, experienced over and again.
Not an advice, but simply stating my preference.
We are living in an age of "THE greatest fitan", so just trying to be mindful not to indulge too much or get attached (chocolates can be an exception). Attachments can bring a lot of regrets.
I don't really show personal interest by what's trending in today's fashion, or in social media to try to copy them to fit the norm. I might use social media today, and not use it for a week or two. I simply observe and see what's changing.
Given my area of interest currently, I would like to be aware of 'what is the ego chasing next', in order to understand fellow human beings.
I only wear, buy, get, take, see, hear or learn what I want from the world that can be of benefit and useful, in a good way. The rest, I'm not really interested and try my best to stay away from them.
Quite a straightforward person, but with an open mind (still developing) willing to change and improve if I have to.
I love travelling, not for sightseeing or simply as a tourist, but love to experience the place, people there and be a backpacker if I have to, or extend my stay.
I have less friends. A lot of acquaintances.
I love my morning coffee.
I can watch movies sometimes.
I like simplicity.
I hate arguments. They drain me.
I'm not stingy.
I can be help-ful in things I am able to.
I won't let go of my citizenship, I have the strongest passport. But I can live in other countries, take a PR, not a harm, and come and go.
I am open to movement.
There is barakah in movement.
I am trained as a Homeopathic Practitioner, so I do have great listening skills.
I like to ask questions, lots of them.
Still getting to know myself, so might write more later.
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What I Am Looking For
A good hearted person, passionate about Allah and learning. Someone who I can connect with, as a companion.
Fluent in English. Even if it's cross-cultural relationship, communication is key. Someone who can understand and laugh at each other's jokes is important.
Open to anyone from East or West.
For more personal introduction to each other, feel free to contact me. - Hakeem
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